I’m looking for a gentleman who is looking for a LTR. If we hit it off, someone who can text throughout the day, maybe talk on the phone a few days a week. I hate people who “ghost”. I bloody despise it. Get the meaning of “relationship”. I’m not on here solely for sex, though that is a part of it. I’m on here looking for a special friend, a good listener and someone who wants to share their past, present and future with me. A good sense of humor goes a long way! I am quiet until I get to know someone. I am reserved until I feel comfortable with a person. Call it my way of feeling someone out. Trust isn’t immediate. Trust comes through contact, talking and of course, time. If you can’t handle this, then I’m not for you. I’m not asking anyone to leave their significant other, but I would like to have love in my life. I’ve gone too long without the love a well as the sex. I’ve made the mistake of sleeping with someone too soon; only to find out that it was just the sex that they wanted. None of the other criteria was important to them anymore once they had that. So be sincere, as I am sincere. A few extra pounds doesn’t bother me. Heck I have a few extra pounds, but take pride in your appearance and make healthy choices. I want my partner in crime. Come to me and be the one